May The Universe Make Me A Woman: Recent Comments

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Steverino — Tue, 19 Dec 2006 01:10:13 GMT

HI, I'm 50 and in very much the same place you are. I have had a very serious case of breast envy as long as I can remember. I am exploring the possiblity of taking breast growth hormones. My wife knows of my lingerie crosdressing and my intense desire to develop/have breasts, and she would not be surprised if I began to develop them.
I, too, have wished many times I knew when I was 16 what I know now. I am not as tormented as you, probably 'cause my wife knows and accepts. I think that if I too told her that I wanted surgery to appear more feminine, that would be the end of the marriage.

Good luck, we'll both need it :)

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Erica4U — Thu, 23 Nov 2006 16:42:09 GMT

Kimberly, I thank You So Much for your letter! I moved from Santa Cruz!! My wife doesn't hate me but she would leave if I wanted to do any transisition! I wanted feminine facial surgery as well as hormones and no deal! We know what is real you and I and I am stuck! I so wish I had the tits to come out and just get on with it! It is so frustrating and I fear it is the root cause to any ailments I may have acquired over the past 30 years! As women within we live in a society that will not accepts us for what we actually are and it is not our "Fault" we were born this way and so we must suffer the burden! My heart goes out to you sister! Please, Please write whenever you feel the need for a sister to talk with or call me at 216-973-2000 that is my cell! Sometimes when the pressure or stress is more than what we need at the time it is good to have someone! Love Erica Starr

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Kimberlyann Ewing — Mon, 20 Nov 2006 01:07:38 GMT

I empathize with you. I am a 47 yr old M-F school teacher. I have been married for 24 yrs. My wife hates me (Kim). I have 4 kids ages 11,14,16,17). I knew I was a girl when I was 5. I didn't just suspect it. I simply knew! By the time I was 14 I knew I was transsexual. I ran from me from the time I was age 18 I ran from me until I reached age 40. I stopped running then but didn't do anything until I was 45 and was living in Monterey CA. I went to counseling in Monterey and even had my endo letter but ran again and then moved to Georgia. I can really appreciate what you are going through! Best of luck and everything to you dear!

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Brenda — Thu, 16 Nov 2006 16:30:42 GMT

Stay The couse! If it's your dream you only get one chance at it!

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Laurie — Thu, 16 Nov 2006 16:26:45 GMT

Get a counselor! It is very needed to get through much of these fears! You may find that you will be more accepted than you think! I am not sure.

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Simon — Thu, 16 Nov 2006 16:24:52 GMT

I myself cannot realte but I understand! I have a family member who is going through the same situation and is afraid his Mum will have a heart attack if he transistions!

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Glenda — Thu, 16 Nov 2006 16:22:08 GMT

So very interesting! I am so much like you! I hope your dream becomes a reality!

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Susan — Thu, 16 Nov 2006 16:19:31 GMT

Fears can be overcome however, you may have to accept the loss of friends or family and possibly work to have your wish come true! It all is a matter of just how important it really is to you!

Comment on May The Universe Make Me A Woman 4

Great — Thu, 16 Nov 2006 16:17:12 GMT

I so understand and feel for you! I have had to be in the closet for many of the same reasons although I am growing breasts and it is getting more difficult to disguise! I feel I will have to come out very soon and I am scared too!

Comment on May The Universe Make Me A Woman 4

Ricci — Wed, 15 Nov 2006 17:49:07 GMT

I came across this article posted in
SantaCruzTrans@yahoogroups.com, This is what I'm going thru in life. As I went back to This Is How It began! Printed all 4 articles to read at my leisure. I want to educate myself as fully as posible so I can really and finally understand who I am and not be ashamed anymore. Looking forward to the next entry!
Yours Truly Ricci